During the grand media conference of Hanggang Kailan last January 17, Xian Lim and Louise Delos Reyes were asked about their stand with regard to complicated relationships, if they have any experiences and how they survived it.
Louise answered first, “Personally, opo napagdaanan ko siya.”
“I’m speaking po sa lahat ng merong complicated relationships, kasi hindi mo masisisi yung tao or hindi mo majujudge or hindi mo malalaman yung tunay na nararamdaman nung tao”
“Kasi ako, during that time, I thought it was worth it meron siyang pupuntahan, pero at the same time para akong nag self-deteriorate, wala na pala siyang pupuntahan.”
“And then one day, narealize ko na lang, kahit gaano katanga ng isang tao sa pag-ibig may isang araw na tatalino din siya. Narealize ko po yun nung 70% na ako ng self- destruction”, she chuckles.
“Narealize ko na lang one day, hindi ko na kaya, I know there’s much better person for me out there somewhere wishing for me.”
Followed by Xian, “Hindi dapat umaabot sa complicated na relationship”
“I didn’t have my fair share of complicated relationship, siguro pag naging complicated sasaktan na lang nila yung puso mo tapos aalis sila.”
“Bakit pa tayo magsasakitan ng puso, wag na natin paabutin pa dun. I think dapat yung intentions ng relationship klaro lang palagi. Wala ng paligoy ligoy pa.”
“Dapat happy lang, pag nagmamahal”
The tandem were also asked by the press, if their respective characters in the story are real persons what pieces of advice they can tell them.
Xian advised his character Donny, “Sasabihin ko sa kanya, pare tigilan mo na yan. Ayusin mo yang mga priorities mo sa buhay, wag kang paligoy ligoy”
Louise shared that she’s also not the type of friend who usually gives advice, “Wala ako dun sa posisyon niya, hindi ko alam yung nararamdaman niya bakit yun yung sagot or choice niya.”
“Siguro ang sasabihin ko lang sa kanya (character Kath), isipin mo na lang at the end of the day, ilang porsyento pa yung natitira sayo?”
The press got curious about the person she shared such complicated relationship with. Thus, the press raised a follow up question which she answered right away, “Ay hindi po, hindi po kami magkasama sa isang network”
When asked if non-showbiz she answered, “sort of, alam niyo naman ako open book naman ako, wala naman akong masyadong tinatago sa inyo”
“Siguro, kung pano siya naging complicated, I think komplikado din kasi kung hindi niyo alam ang label niyo sa isa’t-isa”
“Kung ano yung itatawag niyo, kung girlfriend mo ba siya or dating stage ba kayo”
“I think na cross namin yung borders, wala na yung ligaw wala na lahat”
“Parang it came to a point na, okay sige mahal namin isa’t isa”
“Nag agree din ako kay Xian na kapag komplikado na umalis na, pero binigyan ko siya ng hope. Yung relationship na baka mag progress one day na I can introduce him as my boyfriend”
“But then again, it became very complicated na may sari sarili kaming issues na hindi namin kayang isolve together”
She was also asked if her ex have a different priority, “Yes, may iba siyang priority.
“At masakit sa isang tao na siya ang priority mo, pero hindi ikaw ang priority niya.”
The actress did not disclose the name of the ex boyfriend she’s pertaining to but among them are Aljur Abrenica, Enzo Pineda, Champ Lui Pio.
She was hesitant to say that she’s already friends with her ex,”Hindi ko pa kasi siya nakikita, for me kasi wala naman ako hinold na any grudges to anyone who’s been a part of my life”
“Just incase na makita ko siya, hello I’m okay”
Louise also clarified that she have moved on already.
Watch the whole conversation here: